I used to believe that the end of my marriage would arrive with noise and chaos, with raised voices and shattered expectations scattered across our living room floor like broken glass. I imagined long arguments that stretched late into the night, desperate conversations filled with tears and accusations, or at least some kind of explanation that made sense of what was falling apart. Instead, it ended quietly, almost politely, in a way that felt far more unsettling than any dramatic collapse could have been.
One day my husband was there, moving through our routines with me, sharing meals and responsibilities, tucking the kids into bed beside me, and the next day he simply wasn’t. No dramatic farewell, no attempt at repair, no honest conversation about what he wanted or why he was leaving. Just absence. His clothes disappeared from the closet. His toothbrush vanished from the bathroom. His voice stopped echoing through the house. And suddenly, I was standing in the middle of a life that had been built for two people, trying to figure out how to carry it alone.
