We planned dinners, argued gently about paint colors, and talked about the future in the careful, hopeful language of people who believe they’re building something together. That illusion cracked the moment his mother learned exactly how much I earned. It wasn’t dramatic at first. She smiled, complimented my work ethic, told Lucas she was proud he’d chosen “a capable woman.” But smiles can be masks, and hers slipped quickly.

By the next morning, her tone had shifted—less admiration, more calculation. She spoke as if she were rearranging furniture instead of lives, announcing that Lucas’s three younger brothers would be moving in temporarily. There was no discussion, no question, only a declaration delivered with the certainty of someone who had never been told no. When I hesitated, she tilted her head and said the sentence that changed everything: “Since you earn so well, you’ll take care of them. That’s what family does.”