our first date, we went to a classy restaurant. As soon as we sat down, she smiled at the waiter and asked, “What’s the most expensive dish on your menu?”
My heart sank. I was ready to pay for dinner, but I hadn’t planned for a meal that would leave me broke. The waiter froze, glanced at me, and then carefully described a lavish seafood platter that cost more than my monthly grocery bill. I forced a smile, trying to hide my shock, and told him to give us a moment to decide. In that instant, I started to wonder if I’d made a huge mistake.
As we looked over the menu, I gently asked if she really wanted that dish. To my surprise, she laughed and said, “Oh no, I’m just curious. I always ask that on first dates—it tells me a lot about the person I’m with.” Relief washed over me, but curiosity replaced it. She explained, “If someone insists on ordering it, it shows they care more about appearances than about us having a good time.
