**”My wife hasn’t been able to walk since childhood. Recently, we had a family dinner to celebrate my sister’s upcoming wedding. During the evening, my sister said she didn’t want my wife at the ceremony—because she wanted me by her side, not ‘carrying her around.’ Then someone added that I should’ve married someone else instead of what they called a ‘burden.’
I lost it.
I stood up and said, ‘My wife is not a burden. She’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me. If she’s not welcome, then neither of us will be at your wedding.’”**
The room went silent. I heard the soft clink of a spoon falling onto a plate—my mother’s. My sister’s face turned beet red. She stammered, trying to explain herself, but I was too angry to listen. I got up, helped my wife into her wheelchair, and we left. I heard whispers behind us, but I didn’t care. I was boiling with rage—and sadness. I knew this would fracture my relationship with my family, but I couldn’t let them treat the woman I love with such disrespect.
